wilfred blazer, splendid tee, jbrand wax coated pants, sam edelman shoes, louis vuitton bag, hermes belt, holt renfrew fur faux scarf
on the 10th, all the words to "before he cheats" from carrie underwood & "the last song" from rihanna are the only thing that make complete sense to me. i am almost this close to being jobless, boyfriendless, and breathless...
tell me ladies, what do you do to get over a break-up?
I love your outfit! I'm sorry to hear about your breakup =( I hope you're okay... I usually take a trip somewhere warm. With lots of eyecandy. Doesn't really solve anything in the long run, but it helps take the edge off. I hope you feel better soon!!!
ReplyDeletethe blazer and shoes are actually top five on my omg i need wish list. very jealous right now.
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Betty!!! Oh my goodness, so much has happened in just a week! I hope you're ok, love. You know you can always call me if you ever need to talk. I'm here for you, seriously. <3
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Lily
Yum, I love high tea. Scones with Devonshire cream and jam are always good.
ReplyDeleteI know it's going to sound easier said than done, but to get over a break up, you just do it. Sure you can cry about it, but why bother? Ok, maybe that's not the most compassionate approach, but eventually you'll see that it's not worth your time. It helps when you don't care, but you can't stop caring about someone overnight. Just try to see the silver lining and how you're better off on your own. At the end of the day, the only person you can truly rely on is yourself. I find that the sooner a person realizes that and lives it, the rest is easy.
Those J Brands look amazing on you btw ;)
hope you feel better dear <3 all the best and take care of yourself. stay strong!
ReplyDeletei feel awful, im pretty much am in the same place except im not losing my boyfriend. i will at the rate im going though (acting super crazy and being depressed about not having a job).
ReplyDeletejust breathe and be with people you love and know will let you dwell and sulk for a bit. spoil yourself a little and remind yourself it'll all be ok.
<3
KeepItFvncy,
M.E.
Oh dear, break ups are never easy. I'm not really one to give great advice, I've been with my current boyfriend for 4 years but we were on and off in the past when we were younger, but things are steady now. As cliche as it sounds, time will heal things! If this relationship didn't work out, there's bound to be someone better out there. Cry, talk to friends, watch movies, but don't dwell on your pain. Keep your head up girl!
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I love your outfit. The shoes are so perfect.
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how- cry a lot- meet up with friends if that's what you feel like- do it as often as you can, but if you feel like isolating yourself for a while that might be right too. find a new hobby maybe? i don't know- but i think i would probably move into a friends place and stay there for a couple o days..
ReplyDeleteanyhow- i love your outfit.
i wish you all the best of luck dear
take care
xx
cute! love the pink and black!
ReplyDeleteFirstly can I just say I love your pants, they look so good on you.
ReplyDeleteSecondly, cry cry and cry- let it out sister. Then delete him from your life, every single little thing. Move on. And give it some time- sooner or later you'll realise you're in a much better place. Everything happens for a reason! That's my advice anyways!
Head up girl!
xx
sometimes it helps to just imerse yourself in it...allow yourself to cry and be sad, hurt, angry...eventually you'll get sick of being sick (over him, the situation...). 2011, on to bigger and better things. chin up, girl! you're awesome.
ReplyDeleteI know how you feel, I went through two terrible breakups in '08 and '09. I got through it by letting my self cry it out, blast some tunes in my room by myself, and watch tons of chick flicks. The thing that really helped me move on was busying my social calendar. I spent a lot of time out with my girlfriends and the girl time really helped me move on and rebuild my confidence.
ReplyDeleteHope that things get better for you, keep your head up, time heals all!
i love your outfit, as always! and i usually just read your blog without ever commenting, so im just gonna wish you luck and all the best. time will heal the heart.
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Cool jeans!
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adorable outfit ~ <3
ReplyDelete& hope u will cure that heartache of urs asap ... Personally I think u just have to let your mind & heart heal at its own pace. Be honest to urself. Don't try to force urself and pretend everything is ok if you're not there yet. Let it out. & when u're truthful to urself, though slowly, but surely u will get over the lost.
Best wishes to u <3
Gi
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Sorry to hear about your boo issues! I normally work out, shop and listen to heart paralyzingly music. I hope u feel better soon.
ReplyDeleteLove the outfit dear, the pants are killer. hope your boy & job troubles go away soon :( I think eating a frick load of ice cream, crying it all out and spending time with your best girl friends should do it. Keep your head up, everything will be okay :)
ReplyDeletewhat a such amazing blazer,you always look great especially on black
ReplyDeleteaw, betty :( i'm sorry that everything had to happen one after another. officially prescribing some Ben & Jerry's ice cream, a night out (or in) with the girls and some Sex and the City.
ReplyDeletebut welcome to the "-less" club, it's really not as bad as you think, look at it as more time to do stuff for yourself <3 keep us updated alright?
XOXO
oh shit sorry things are rough. :/ i'm not sure how to handle a break up but i'm pretty sure it just takes time.
ReplyDeleteyour outfit is really lovely by the way :) x
Breakups are never easy! It always helps to find someone you enjoy spending time with to take your mind off of it. On another note, you look amazing! xo
ReplyDeleteSorry things aren't that good sweetie! <3
ReplyDeleteBut I love this outfit - you pull it off so effortlessly! Just stumbled across your blog, definitley following!
Hope you can do the same :)
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xoxo
wow sorry to hear about your bad luck...but hopefully everything works out soon. you'll always look great, if that's any consolation to you :)
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i love the pants!
ReplyDeleteI'm sorry to hear about your breakup... I'm almost getting over mine... it's been a year. I hope you won't need to take as long as mine. Just cry it out and go travel. That's what I did. Having good friends around you at all times do help!
ReplyDeleteAll the best! xoxo
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i know you posted this in jan so i hope you're feeling a lot better since then. sorry to hear about your break up. its one of the most difficult things to deal with. what helps me is exhausting myself from releasing the pain by crying, going to the gym or doing yoga and meditating.
ReplyDeleteand like momojae mentioned i try to travel somewhere. it gives me perspective and a bigger picture of life. i usually feel refreshed after that. hang in there =)